If Adam doesn’t know, he needs to realize.

“If she wasn’t emotional before, that is all about to change. You getting a higher rank could just mean an automatic free lay. Most of the time, everything is your fault. (This especially goes for when she is pregnant.) She WILL start talking like your guys and you talk, including using your last names. She will be proud of you… VERY proud. Every week she’ll have “another song” that makes her think of you when you’re away. (And she’ll cry to it, even when you’re in the same room). If you’re married, she may know the base better than you do… Don’t take it personal. You will catch her comparing your relationship with “other couples” constantly, because that is how girls are. She’ll make 5 million friends online, and talk to you about them all the time because her “old friends just don’t understand” like they do. Don’t be shocked when she just drops “civilian chicks” out of her life like flies. (She mostly does this when they complain to her. If you love her, DO NOT say anything about you not wanting to make her wait for you… Most women actually do LOVE it when you are sweaty and dirty, even the girlie girls. It’s sexy as hell. Only bring up the field once, say it clear, and don’t bring it up again. We will remember the time, the dates, like stone inside our mind. Don’t remind us. You ARE her hero. That isn’t us being cute, it’s us swelling with pride, feeling like a princess every time we glance over and you’re standing there. Don’t worry about waking her up when you get a chance to call, trust me, she’s NOT sleeping. If she is, she’s been waiting for you to call all night, and fell asleep next to the phone. Leave at least 3 of your shirts for her… she’ll wear them all the time and if she doesn’t wear them out she WILL wear them to sleep. No matter what she was like before, she is tough & harder than a rock now. She can handle almost anything, she will get through it, tears or no tears. Don’t be discouraged or taken back from her strength. It comes with the territory. When in your arms, she’s still your princess, soft and sweet. Your kids might see mommy as the one in charge for a while, it’s okay, they WILL respect you, just give it time. EVERYTHING in her life will be complicated, so she might actually need your support and encouragement. Tag Chasers are her WORST enemy, she CAN and WILL spot these girls… random profane comments may come out of your little queens’ mouth…its okay, she’s protecting her best asset…you. She will spend hours to look good on cam & in pics for you, this is just a past-time until you get home, be prepared for messy ponytails and comfy pants when you finally do get home. Her favorite sentences from you start with “when I get home” or “when I get out”. No matter how much she’s changed, never forget that you mean the world to her, she loves you more than anything, and you will ALWAYS be her hero.. whether you think you are one or not.”

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About maybemiranda

21. Wife. Student.
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